Everyone has a bad day. It is easy to get caught up with what isn’t going right, however, it takes some real effort to recognize what is right when things seem they are going in the opposite direction.
Today was my birthday. I usually don’t worry about my birthdays, because they really haven’t been that important to me. I would rather celebrate others, than celebrate myself, that’s just the way I am. I had an epiphinany today when I had over 100 of my friends post on my Facebook wall, text me, or call me directly to wish me a Happy Birthday. I thought back to one of my favorite movies of all time, “It’s A Wonderful Life” and the main character, George Bailey.
George has many of the same stressors that many of us face on a daily basis. Financial issues, work issues, regrets, and so on. George has the perfect storm brewing when all of these stressors hit at one time. Through his “guardian angel”, Clarence he learns that even though things are really bad at that moment, he actually is a positive influence on others around him. At the end of the movie, after Clarence takes him on a historical journey of his life and the impact that he has had on others, he realizes that his life is meaning.
Clarence sends him a message at the end of the movie that says, “Dear George, remember no man is a failure who has friends. Thanks for the wings, Love Clarence.” This is a very powerful quote, and one that I remember everyday.
Whenever you are having a bad day, remember that you truly have A Wonderful Life. Each of us have guardian angels that we will never see, never know, but have an influence over us. They help us make good choices each day, if we allow them to. Just as George Bailey had to allow Clarence to show him he did matter, each of us have to be open to input from others.
I am not a religious person by any means, but I am a believer that everything happens for a reason. We face situations each day that challenge us in many ways. Know that you have friends that you may not talk to every day, but friends that truly do care about you and reenter your life at critical moments for a reason. This was my lesson of the day. Take the time each day to recognize those who have a positive impact on you.
“Remember no man is a failure who has friends.”
By keeping this quote in mind, you can’t help but have A Wonderful Life!